Monday, February 25, 2013

Mindset Techniques To Accomplish Awesome Goals

This post will help you gain the mindset to accomplish big goals. Previously , I've talked about the psych up I do before a gym exercise to get the perfect mindset for great results. Today, I'm going to talk about my new in-between psych up that gains even better results! Both mindset techniques can be successfully used for other aspects of life. I also have family-related news to share.

Wonderful Family News: 
We had excellent family news this week. T, my teen daughter, qualified for nationals for Urban Debate League. K, my second oldest daughter, got accepted into a graduate program at Carnegie Mellon University, where she is currently a junior. J, my oldest daughter who is an industrial engineer was selected to be a speaker at University of Wisconsin--Madison to talk to a group of under-grad students about her successful transition from college graduate into the engineering profession. Yesterday, my teen son who is a photographer, just got done taking some lovely "author" pictures of me for my upcoming book. (Yes, I'll put one up on this blog.) I'm so proud of all of them!

Now to Mindset Techniques to Help *You* Succeed:
Psych-ups are special messages to get the mindset and chemicals in the brain ready so that the body can perform its best exercise possible. Surprisingly (or not!), I've also found that they can also be used any time of the day to accomplish any task. They involve actively encouraging yourself very strongly and strategically to be your very best--and who doesn't need more of that!

I've been getting some super results in the gym. I went 6.96 miles per hour on elliptical for 10 minutes (1.16 miles in 10 minutes), which is my fastest speed I've ever recorded. I had several high sets of bench press, including a set of 10 at 135 pounds. All of my exercises have been a little better because of the in-between psych up I've been developing. 

I've talked many times about my psych-up that I personally use before my weightlifting.  I've taught my psych-up to many young weightlifter guys and a few weightlifting women, and most of these people reported that they could immediately lift about 10 pounds more weight after the psych up. An immediate 10 pound gain for bench press is considered very remarkable in weightlifting.

But now I'm developing an in-between psych up that I use in the middle of a weightlifting set, or in the middle of a timed run. The in-between psych-up involves thinking a quick thought of "!!!" or "Yay!" in the brain for very tiny successes in the gym.

The In-Between Psych-Up for Weightlifting
For weightlifting, I gave myself a "!!!"for each rep of my bench press went all of the way up. So if I bench press the weighted bar up 10 times, each time gets its own brain "!!!" for that tiny accomplishment. Weightlifting has a breathing technique that seeks to accomplish that same thing. A person who is bench pressing is supposed to breathe out with a big energetic breath when the bar is completely up. But I find the "!!!" that I gave to my mind helped even further. It gave me a bit of mental freshness for each time I pressed the bar up. This is a new technique I made up on Sunday, and I can't wait to see the long-term results.

A weightlifter guy beside me was greatly impressed with my bench press of 10 reps at 135 pounds after several other previous sets that had already been tiring me out!  He happily exclaimed, "You weren't expecting that, were you!" And yes, I was grinning. And I told him about my in-between psych up. <<This is an example of fit gym people sharing information amongst themselves that makes them more fit than the rest of the people in the gym. 

The In-Between Psych-Up for Cardio
As applied to elliptical (or other cardio race), I give myself a "!!!" in the brain at the end of the first successful minute of the 10 minute race ( at least .11 miles per minute is my goal). Each minute is treated individually as a one minute race with its own ending. So to get to 6.6 miles per hour during a 10 minute race, these are my goals by the minute:

Minute 1:   .11 miles
Minute 2:   .22 miles
Minute 3:   .33 miles
Minute 4:   .44 miles
Minute 5:   .55 miles
Minute 6:   .66 miles
Minute 7:   .77 miles
Minute 8:   .88 miles
Minute 9:   .99 miles
Minute 10:  1.10 miles

If I'm going faster than this pace, I'm ellipticalling faster than 6.6 miles per hour. For example, I like to see myself a little ahead at the energetic beginning with .24 at the end of the second minute.  I also gain a little at the end of the 10 minutes just willing myself to have a strong finish.

The calculation for miles/hour for a 10 minute race:
(miles/10 minutes x 6 = miles/hour)

1.1 miles/10 minutes x 6 = 6.6 miles/hr

On Saturday, I had 10 minutes where I went a little faster than my goal: 
1.16 miles/10 minutes x 6 = 6.96 miles/hr

So each minute is its own race, with its own goal, with its own tiny brain victory. Try it if you want to up your personal cardio best.

Psych-Ups For Success In All Aspects Of *Your* Life
Lastly, I want to say that psych-ups should be used for other aspects of life. I'm actually going to do a post about this, but we really should all be giving ourselves little sparks of praise (!!!) in our minds for tiny accomplishments all day long. Giving ourselves positive brain zings for tiny accomplishments is a habit that can make each day happier and more successful.

What do *you* think? Did I explain this well? Can you imagine using this technique in *your* own life? And, of course, any other comments you want to say.

Give yourself tiny sparks of praise today!

:-) Marion


17 comments:

  1. Congrats on your family's successes, Marion! And tell your son that I'm eagerly wating to see new pictures of you on the blog. :-)

    I'm not as accomplished exerciser as you are, but I've recently come with a way of psyching myself up for a better performance . I've learned to wait till I get over the first wave of muscle fatigue before I even consider quitting. This seems to work especially on static holds like superman and plank.

    I'll try the !!!-technique too. :-) I must admit that my weight lifting technique probably has plenty of room for improvement..

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    1. Hi Satu! Yes, with good mental mindset we are capable of better performance than we sometimes believe. The !!! technique can be used any time of the day, or with exercise like I did. But I've found myself doing !!! for little accomplishments at work, and later while I washed dishes and folded clothes.

      I'm eagerly awaiting your progress. :D

      :-) Marion

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  2. I totally do these mini psych ups during my workouts. Sometimes it is all that gets me through to the next minute of the workout, sometimes it is how I step up my game and improve, and other times it just helps to pass the time quickly. Congrats on all the family success this week. You are a proud mommy!

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    1. Hi Amber! I probably started doing those mini in-between psych ups because of loss of focus during the middle of cardio. Then a weightlifting guy suggested to me that I needed to treat each minute on its own, and independent of the other minutes of cardio. That did help me focus. And now, I'm praising myself for each great minute to get as much extra positive brain chemicals that I can.

      Yes, my kids are fantastic. I love them so much. :D

      :-) Marion

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  3. You have remarkable children, Marion! But you already know that. ;) Well done!

    Thanks for the psych up suggestions! Never thought of that. I do use a particular song as my first song when dancing, and it's totally upbeat, both in rhythm and lyrics, so maybe I already am, and didn't realize it. :)

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    1. Hi Gwen! Well, for people like me who used to pop M&Ms all day long, I really have had to revamp my life to appreciate many little moments in my day a whole lot more. I have many more little brain zings just from appreciation of life.

      I absolutely love music for a psych up. Like you, I also use rhythms, lyrics, intros as wind ups, bridges, and choruses--just about any way I can.

      :-) Marion

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  4. I don't know if I get it or not, but I liked reading about what is working for you, Marion!

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    1. Hi Dr. J! Well, it's always great to know that any technique is working for anyone. I don't really care what they are doing if it is fairly healthy and successful for them.

      :-) Marion

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  5. Marion: your posts have a real impact on me. Could you put the "follow by email" gadget on your blog for those of us who would like to follow by email? That way your posts come to a person's inbox and they can read it and keep a copy to re-read at different times. Please will you consider it? Sharon

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    1. Hi Sharon! Thanks! I'm glad what I'm saying is useful for you.
      Sure, I'll look into that.

      :-) Marion

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  6. Marion, that is excellent news regarding your daughter. Congrats to you and her.
    I use this Psych-Up method especially when I run but after seeing the trainer last night, I am going to need this method more with the training program he formulated for me :)

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    1. Hi Marleen! I'm glad your new trainer is working out for you! I'm not sure how much time your trainer is going to spend regarding psych ups, but it is well worth your time to learn how to do one before you start each exercise.

      :-) Marion

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  7. Hi Marion, I'm happy for you and your family,congratulations!!! :)
    Mini pshych-up are something I'm addicted to that's how I do every workout of mine, another thing I constantly do is round off the time and distance while running, so if I have finished around 4.3k in say 21 minutes then I will tell my self to continue only till I reach 4.5k then I notice I reach 4.5k in 24 minutes so I will tell myself I will complete 25 minutes but till I finish 25 minutes I cover 4.6k so I again round it up to 4.75k... ;) and this goes on till I really have reached my limit (hopefully I did not confuse you)

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    1. Hi Tanvee! Yes, I know what you're saying--just adding a little more, and then realizing even a little more could be added--little bits that are nonthreatening adding up to extra fitness.<<I do know what you're saying, but I'm not even sure I summed it up well! :D

      :-) Marion

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  8. I try to stay motivated, but I don't think I do it in such a positive and enthusiastic manner. I've got to give this a go!

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    1. Hi PlumPetals! Well, I'd like to say that I'm all about fitness fun, but I really do like the good fitness numbers too. I like to keep in certain strength and flexibility ranges that require me to give very exerted effort. And the only aspect I've realized that can be easily enhanced to increase fitness is attitude. Keeping those brain chemicals at their peak for each exercise really changes a person's trajectory of fitness.

      :-) Marion

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  9. Your kids are awesome! Thanks for sharing that wonderful news. I definitely have to psych myself up when I'm running. My race this weekend was hill after hill. I was like the little engine that could saying to myself over and over you can do it, you can do it...just run the hill no matter how slow. Like Tanvee I play little games on the machines at the gym. I love round numbers so I cannot end at 1.01 miles. I will keep going until I reach 1.05 or 1.10. I also try to beat myself particularly on the elliptical and I do it minute to minute too. My mental psych ups helped me make peace with the treadmill which is very useful during the winter months when outdoor running is impossible or dangerous. My tried and true psych up is music. I am currently addicted to Fall Out Boy's "My Songs Know What you Did in the Dark."

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